Miss me with the mug, hit me with the IBC
Miss me with the mug, hit me with the IBC
I read parts of it and basically
Having lots of single dates or low numbers of dates per partner many times that end in sex and don’t continue into anything will make you burned out on dating. He dubs this used condom syndrome, imo it’s too on the nose.
He rambles on a lot more about dating and different categories of daters.
Dudes not wrong about the core idea but his writing needs some serious work and it’s a lot of pseudoscience and sterotyping.
Yeah I really wish. It’s just not going to happen though. I don’t go anywhere or do anything. I just sit around and shovel stimulation into the black hole inside myself at an unsustainable rate to try to distract myself from the fact that that’s all things will ever be for me, that’s all things ever can be for me. I’m so tired and I desperately just want to give up. Even when things are ok and my mood isn’t in the dumpster it hangs over me. I don’t want to do this anymore. I’m sick of being a barely functioning human being. I’m just so tired and I want to turn it all off. There’s things that I would like to do or have or be, but they just aren’t going to happen. I’ll never have someone that cares for me. I’ll never be able to actually stick with a hobby I enjoy. I’d love to actually be a person I enjoy being, but THAT’S certainly never going to happen.
I can’t kill myself, because too many people still care about me. I wish people would forget about me so I could just leave. There’ll probably come a point when I’m too tired to care. Hard to tell when it’ll be.
When I’m sick I don’t really have the initiative to be horny, I think. If someone else initiated it though…
“Honey, grab the lube, I need you to take my temperature!”
That’s also just the natural lifecycle of live service games. The player base spikes after an update, and trails off again as time goes on
Problem: I’ve never cared about my appearance before and have no idea what I like or a starting point for trying stuff
Listening to others fashion advice gives me that starting point to begin exploring! Sorry I know you don’t mean that in a dismissive way, I just wanted to chime in that fashion advice is still worth discussing, it’s just not something to hold yourself to =D
I love this post soooooo much
NGL if I were him I would a killed myself in the first or second episode
Sure! Best practices vary to your application. I’m a dev, so I’m used to configuring stuff for local env use. In prod, archiving is definitely nice so you can track back even through heavy logging. Though, tbh, if you’re applications getting used by that many people a db logging system is probably just straight better
You should have rolling log files of limited size and limited quantity. The issue isn’t that it’s a text file, it’s that they’re not following pretty standard logging procedures to prevent this kind of thing and make logs more useful.
Essentially, when your log file reaches a configured size, it should create a new one and start writing into that, deleting the oldest if there are more log files than your configured limit.
This prevents runaway logging like this, and also lets you store more logging info than you can easily open and go through in one document. If you want to store 20 gb of logs, having all of that in one file will make it difficult to go through. 10 2 gb log files is much easier. That’s not so much a consumer issue, but that’s the jist of it.
Just came out to my cousin! Only extended family member to know. I told my sister a month after I knew, I knew she’d be supportive. Talked about it with my dad, he doesn’t really get it but loves me and is happy for me. He’s relatively old, and struggles with other people’s name and pronoun changes, so I doubt he’ll do well with mine if/when that happens, but that doesn’t matter to me much. Haven’t told my mother yet.
Nice, it’s now a community dildo
If you don’t mind me asking, what do you mean by break? To me, pain is easier if there’s nothing I can do to improve or prevent it. Takes a mental load off, at least. I’m thankful I don’t believe in afterlives, I’m SO looking forward to nonexistence.