NotAnonymousAtAal

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The whole thing was clearly intended as a joke.

That joke was a bit edgy, misguided and/or tactless.

The reaction still seems a bit extreme to me.

Same advice applies for that as for all other things related to relationships and/or sex:

1. Put yourself into situations where things can happen. (Can’t win the lottery if you don’t buy a ticket.)

2. Don’t expect anything to actually happen at any given moment. (If you are only there for one thing other people will notice it and that is not attractive at all.)

3. Be patient and enjoy whatever else is going on meanwhile.

probably he’s still grieving for his loved one who died as a direct result of their medical care claim getting denied

Another scenario that seems likely to me is that he’s only got a few weeks or maybe months left to live himself due to a denied claim.