I went with the default and apparently it was the right one because the drive popped up to mount and I was able to copy files to it. Thanks for the assistance though I appreciate it. Good to know for the future

I hope no one is typing a long response right now, I -think- I figured it out. It was KDE I wanted not dolphin and after fiddling about I -think- it should work now. It at least popped up as a drive

These jokes about different pots for each meal are funny until you live with a hoarder for awhile who must have enough pots to cook each food in its own (even though they use the same pot or pan for everything they cook). Ugh it sucked lol