Have you tried Simplewall? Similar situation, but I’m a Mullvad user, and I haven’t had any issues

Simplewall, can’t recommend it enough

Yeah, that’s why I use TailScale at all. I host services for my close friends to enjoy

The biggest downside, as I understand it, is that it’s difficult to convince others to use your tailnet

Commenting so I don’t lose this post, because I’m curious too.

As a goth, I’m jealous of your party!