Yeah, the person was actually… not a nice person at all. This wasn’t referring to you as well, but rather just something this post reminded me of, as both are about gender-non-conforming trans people.
And he explicitly used that word himself, that’s why I used it. Afaik it can be used in a super transphobic way, but also as a normal word if it refers to femboys (at least I know / knew some using it to refer to themselves), but tell me if you know differently about it.